Why bother? Most of us spend much of our lives trying to arrange things so that we feel happier and more contented with our lives - and often we feel stuck or frustrated. We never ask ourselves how we could feel worse. But doing so can illuminate a road that runs in both directions. By understanding how we could lower our mood, we can often see more clearly how to raise it.
Here are the verbatim answers from 10 of these individuals. How do they compare with your own?
- Live in a place with no view: claustrophobic and little outside light.
- Find out that the person you just met and thought was terrific is actually controlling and erratic.
- Spend more money than you have coming in.
- Spend endless hours reliving all of your past mistakes.
- Surround yourself with miserable and angry people.
- Have no goals for yourself.
- Lose all my old friends and don't make new ones.
- Work longer hours doing things I dislike for less money.
- Do not progress through life goals, instead only moving further away from them.
- Choose not to forgive people: Friends, family, co-workers, strangers, etc.
- Get stupidly, wildly in debt by purchasing things I don't need (a mortgage would be okay though).
- Become an atheist.
- Don't drink coffee for the rest of my life.
- Stop using the computer.
- Spend less money.
- Watch more television.
- Go shopping all day, every day.
- Eat whatever I crave, whenever I want.
- Participate only in activities I have no interest in.
- Associate only with inauthentic people.
- Get very drunk every day.
- Isolate myself from communication with others.
- Limit my finances.
- Limit my mobility.
- Live in an area with more traffic and other city pollution without the possibility of getting out.
- Sit for more than four hours a day in the basement suite.
- Have no vision, goals, or daily "tasks" to follow.
- Eat only chocolate.
- Stop smiling and talking to others.
- Stop being grateful.
What about you? If you could change only three things in the quest for unhappiness, what would YOU do?
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